Getting the Woman of Your Dream

There is a ton of information available online regarding dating.  This does not mean that all guides are created equally.

How to best attract members of the opposite sex?  They cover everything from what to wear, to how to talk, to specific pick-up lines to use.  Many are borderline offensive, are more likely to get you

Regardless of what spin these online manuals and guides take, they usually have one thing in common.  They typically spend a lot of time on self-confidence.

Believing in yourself is essential to attracting a woman.  How can you get someone else to think you’re great, if you don’t think you’re great?  The cheesy pick-up lines, hidden tricks, and secret

Without the self-confidence to look a woman in the eyes and communicate with her, you won’t have much success in the dating department.

Some men get really stressed out about picking up a woman, and anxiety about it is common and normal. However, sometimes it goes a step further to the point of a panic attack.

Do you have any of the symptoms? 

Rapid heartbeat Nausea   Stammering  Fear of rejection   Clammy hands   Inability to maintain a logical dialogue    Flustered    Going blank   Shakiness

If you have any of the aforementioned symptoms, you can relax. Not only will we cover the best ways to build up your dating self-confidence, but you will also learn the key tips to success with women.

You’ll also learn about the type of man that attracts women mentally, no matter what you look like.

Attracting Women

Getting Started

Successful dating techniques are usually not something you are just born knowing. It takes work to be able to pick up the woman of your dreams.

So you carefully pay attention to what works

What doesn’t, tweaking your own style and technique until you find a method that works best for you.  You see what other people do and mimic that which feels most natural.

You get feedback from women - both solicited and unsolicited – about what you are doing right and wrong.  All of these learning techniques are helpful and essential to your success.

However, if you are still experiencing difficulty with women, this guide will help you succeed in dating, overcome your shyness, and gain the lifestyle that you long for.

Women 101 

What makes a woman tick?  You’ve probably asked yourself this a hundred times.  The fact is that women and men are essentially the same, with a few exceptions.

First, think about your non-romantic female relationships.  Do you have female friends and acquaintances?  What do you talk about?  How do you interact?

The women you are trying to date are probably very similar to these women. Do you have a great friendship with a woman?  What parts of that can you pull from to help you with meeting someone new?

Men and women have many of the same desired outcomes from dating. Many are looking for someone who is fun and who they enjoy spending time with. They are looking for a friend that they can trust,

They are looking for a romantic partner.  Women want the dream man that will take care of them emotionally, mentally, and physically. More than likely, you are looking for some variation of this too.

Women are just as nervous as you are about meeting someone new. They get the same anxiety and stress, & when you approach a woman, most likely feeling the same jitters and butterflies that you are.

Keep that in mind to help quell your fears.  Women, just like men, have varying opinions about what makes someone attractive physically and mentally.

Also just like men, for some women looks are more important than others. And every woman thinks different men are attractive.  For many women, appearance is not a major factor in dating a man.

Women find it is most IMP to be romantically involved with a good man who is good to her.  Someone that can make her laugh, hold an interesting conversation, & make life more fun and interesting.

With this in mind, you’ll need to take a close look at yourself, complete the worksheets, and focus on your top attributes when trying to attract a woman.

Women like positive, non creepy attention from men, and many dress up to boost their self confidence in the dating arena. Women will tell you if they are not interested.

You shouldn’t feel nervous about approaching an attractive woman and striking up a conversation. If she’s taken or not interested, she’ll simply say so.  No harm done.

It’s best to develop the attitude that taking small risks will have a big payoff. If you don’t try you will never know. And what have you got to lose?

These common sense facts about women in print, it hopefully helps you realize that women are normal human beings that have many of the same stresses & excitement about meeting you as you do with them

Female behavior is typically predictable and communication helps to ensure that you are both on the same page. Women aren’t out to embarrass you.  Once you realize that women are the same as you,

you’ll be able to easily approach any woman in a relaxed manner just as casually as a chat with your buddy about the game.

Look at Yourself – Know Your Attributes 

You get started, A good idea is to take an honest look at yourself.  What are your best selling points?  Focus on the positive  Are you funny? Do you have an analytical mind?  Are you quick-witted?